Homemaking – we all do it differently. Sometimes we are inspired by the good modelling we have received, sometimes we decide that we will not do what was done to us. And at other times, we just drift and do what we can to get through the day with its many and, often conflicting, demands.
Still, ‘home’ is important to us. In our home we have our sense of self and of security, or sadly, for many their insecurity. Such insecurity is so undermining because we have such a deep-seated desire to feel ‘at home’. It is as though it is woven into our very bones.
In last Sunday’s Gospel, Jesus says that he and God the Father desire to come and make their home in us. This gives us a new way of looking at our sense of self. Over the past few days, I have been asking myself: ‘who would I be if God felt ‘at home’ with me?’ The answer to that question would be unique to each of us. But for me, well, I think God would tell me to cut myself a little slack and not be so self-critical. I would be less fearful, more alive, ready to try a few more things, enjoy the chocolate. I would be accepting of who God has made me to be and stop trying to be someone else.
For a parent, this is very important. As you are ‘at home’ with yourself, you give your children the model they need to grow into their best selves. There will be a quiet well of wisdom within you that can help them grow into their best selves. So let God come and be ‘at home’ in you, that your homes be places where your child/ren can be their best selves
Loving God, you want to be ‘at home’ with me. Let me relax into your loving presence and hear the encouragement and wisdom you want to give me. I ask this in Jesus’ name, confident that you will hear me.
Sr Kym Harris osb
