To bring good news to the poor….
God sent a ‘present’ into the world, the gift of a loving presence named Jesus. The gospel stories indicate that Jesus gave few material things to people. What he gave most was his personal presence, gifts that were treasures of the heart: belief in self, inner healing, peace of mind, compassion, forgiveness, dignity, and justice. This loving presence lives on in us and is the central focus of Christmas gift-giving.
Sharing the gift of personal presence means that we see ourselves as a gift holding the goodness of Jesus, Emmanuel, God-with-us. Like Jesus, we can give from our inner abundance, gifts from the heart. Moments lovingly spent with another and/or for another through prayer (what we call intercessory prayer) or through personal presence, carry more beauty and have more endurance than anything material we could give. What greater gifts could we share than ones that reflect the Great Love we have known in the person of Jesus: our care and concern, our hope, our joy, our understanding and forgiveness, our kindness, our patience, our acceptance of how things and people are?
When we think of our hurried pace of life, we see how Advent gets lost in “the Christmas rush.” The messages are all around us: “Buy this and you will be happy; buy that and you will prove your love.” Sharing presence is hard to do in a culture that keeps promoting material things as a sign of how much we love others. Sharing presence is difficult in an environment that encourages us to be as busy as possible so that we will be rich, successful, and important-and able to buy more things.
When we are busy, rushed, and pressed it is easy to miss awareness and communion with those around us and with those in our larger world. Advent is a good season to be more deliberate in sharing ‘the present of our presence’ every day. It may be through a phone call, a letter, a visit, or through the bonding of prayer as we focus love and attention toward those who need the strength of God to be with them.
The following are suggestions for “being with” others during Advent. We may think of other ways to share our presence in order to deliberately choose “being” over “doing” When the feast of Christmas arrives may we be more aware of the power of Emmanuel’s presence within us and our ability to warm the lives of others because of this Gift of Love
Suggestions for Giving the Present of Presence
Be physically present with another
or present “in spirit” by deliberately sending prayer,
compassionate thoughts,
and kind feelings toward another person or group.
Be with someone who needs you.
Be with a person who gives you hope.
Be with those who live in terror and fear.
Be with an older person.
Be with someone who has helped you to grow.
Be with one who is in pain.
Be with someone who grieves.
Be with a war-torn country.
Be with yourself.
Be with someone who has written to you.
Be with a child, be with a youth.
Be with a refugee who is fleeing from harm.
Be with an enemy or someone you dislike.
Be with a farmer losing his or her land.
Be with someone who has terminal/chronic illness
Be with the homeless.
Be with those who suffer from substance abuse or addiction.
Be with hungry children.
Be with a co-worker.
Be with those whose hope is faint.
Be with world leaders.
Be with someone in your family.
Be with men and women in prison.
Be with someone working for justice.
Be with those who are abused and neglected.
Be with your loved and not so loved ones.
Be with someone who is alone.