As an educator for the last 33 years, I have seen many changes in primary schools such as teaching and assessment practices, STEM and digital technology available for children, but I would say that, unfortunately, one of the biggest changes I have seen in primary school children is an increase in anxiety. In fact, I heard in the news recently that the Victorian Government has made a huge financial commitment to provide a Well-Being staff member in every primary school in Victoria by 2026.
I am sure that there are many factors that result in children’s anxiety, but I am of the belief that social media platforms are a significant contributor to this situation. Smart devices and social media sites have become part of our children’s lives and they strongly influence how our children create, share and engage information with others. Despite all the great things about cyberspace, the online world does create some problems for children.
Technology exposes children to: inappropriate content; cyber bullying; sexting, online grooming, identity theft and online pornography.
Young people’s cognitive development will never equal their technical ability. It is important that we work together to help and guide them and intervene when necessary.
Susan McLean is the author of Sexts, Texts and Selfies. She is one of Australia’s foremost experts in the area of cyber safety and young people. Below is a list of things she recommends we talk about with young people:
- Cyber space is a public space – even if you have your accounts set to the highest level of privacy and security the content is still accessible to those who know how
- Think before you post to limit damage to your reputation
- Nothing can be totally deleted
- You are never anonymous online
- You always leave a digital footprint
- Passwords must never be shared other than child to parent - teach your children that passwords are a secret you share with mum and dad
- There is no such thing as a safe website or app - just a safe user
- Anyone can be online - people lie online
Manners are important
- Words don't convey facial expressions or emotions - be aware of your tone
- Even when using emojis things can be taken the wrong way
- Caps lock equals shouting
- If you wouldn't swear in front of your Nanna, don't swear online
- Don't send emails or texts when you are overtired, emotional or angry - leave it until the morning
- Treat others how you would like to be treated - don't respond to negativity with negativity
- If you wouldn't say it to someone's face - don't say it online
Throughout her book Susan McLean reminds parents of the importance of being informed, empowered and in control when it comes to technology, and she stresses that parents need to continually talk to their children about online safety issues.
Parents increasingly face many pressures with what they allow and what access they provide for their children. It is important to know that children should not be on social media platforms before the age of 13 because the algorithms shape the children’s brains and influence their thinking adversely. I strongly encourage all parents to ensure that children do not have laptops, devices or mobile phones in their bedrooms when it is time to go to bed and monitor that children do not spend more than two hours of leisure time using screens on any given day.
Let us continue to raise healthy, happy, positive children who are well balanced and look to keep anxiety at a minimum.
Kind regards
Frank Congedi