Dear Families,
Welcome to 2023The holidays are over. School is back. And routines are recommencing. For many families this means:
extra stress (some kids don’t feel excited about heading to kindy/prep/reception or school),
extra costs (let’s face it, uniforms, shoes, and the rest of it all)
extra challenges (ADHD, dyslexia, other needs, friendship issues, learning difficulties).
Of course, it’s not all bad news. Some families are delighted. Holidays create stress because of babysitting challenges, costs for entertainment, and more.
And fortunately, there are tens of thousands of our kids that actually enjoy school and are glad to be back.
As it happens – so are we! Parenting Ideas has been providing helpful parenting advice to parents in early learning centres, primary schools, and high schools around Australia, New Zealand, and the world for over two decades! This year it’s no different.
Starting the year right
If you’re like most parents, you really wanted to start things off well, but it’s been a little rocky. Getting back into a routine, being on time, sorting out school lunches… it’s a bit tricky. Best laid plans haven’t quite been as smooth as you might have liked. To dial in your morning and evening routines, I’m going to suggest a few principles to help.
1. Get clear on what ‘getting it right’ actually means.You might know what you want the morning to look like. But is it clear to you? Can you write it down? Can you put it on the fridge? Can you explain it to your kids and help them to buy into why it matters? Clearly explaining what you want and why is going to be a critical first step.
2. Set up a system.Author, James Clear, says that “you do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.” So what does your system look like for making things happen? Can you create a system that will facilitate a smooth morning for every member of the family?
3. Workshop it.Setting up a system when you’re a parent is pretty easy. But bringing the family along can be trickier. By having a meeting and developing the system with input from your kids, you get to be clear, establish the system, and create buy-in. Ask your children to make suggestions and design the morning based on their ideas. Fashion it with your expert knowledge. And watch the results improve because your children have been part of it. Involvement is a central success pillar when it comes to developing a system that works in any family.
4. Curate competence.The real secret to successful routines is helping the kids become self-sufficient. It takes time, but teaching them to toast their bread or crumpets, fry or scramble some egg, or organise their cereal or yogurt, or even blend a smoothie means that there is less friction with your routine. They feel good about doing what needs to be done because they know how to do it. And while it’s slow at first, it becomes wonderfully efficient over time.
5. Support autonomy.Kids love to have choices. They appreciate being able to make their own decisions. Support them in that while ensuring they know what the guidelines and boundaries are for making things happen well.
Here are the golden rules of a magic morning (from a dad of six who has talked with thousands of parents about getting this right):
Your morning begins the night before. Get the prep done for tomorrow at bedtime so uniforms are ready, bags are packed, and library books or sports gear is sorted.
Create margin by waking up a little early, and getting the kids up (gently) a little early too. Room to breathe makes everything work better.
Create the structure so everyone knows what needs to be done.
Keep the kids accountable in a supportive way.
In spite of your best efforts, things will go pear-shaped now and then. When this happens, stay calm (remember: emotions are contagious), don’t sweat the small stuff, be flexible for the morning… but get it back on track the next day by having a calm conversation in the evening, reinforcing the system, and working together on making it work.
Whether it’s magic mornings or excellent evenings, the process is the same. Work as a team, and watch the magic happen… at least sometimes.
Dr Justin Coulson
Dr Justin Coulson is a dad to 6 daughters. He is the parenting expert and co-host of Channel 9’s Parental Guidance, and he and his wife host Australia’s #1 podcast for parents and family: The Happy Families podcast. He has written 6 books about families and parenting. For further details visit www.happyfamilies.com.au.
Reconciliation 2023
Is your child in Year 3 and making their First Reconciliation this year. If so please complete the form coming home on Operoo this week. Our Information night is on Wednesday 1st March 2023 at 7pm in the St Joseph's hall. The ceremonies will take place on Wednesday 29th March at 10am and 6pm.
St Joseph’s OSHC 2023
Name of Program: St Joseph’s Catholic Primary School OSHC
Before and After School Care
If you wish your child to attend please book a place on 9581 4867. The sessions start from 6.45am and conclude at 6.00pm. Entry will be from Woodbine Grove gate each morning and afternoon.
The only children allowed onsite before 8.30am will be those booked into Before School Care.
To enroll please visit before and after school care to enrol
Contact Our School hours Care for further information:
W: kingston.vic.gov.au/beforeandafterschoolprogram
E: beforeandafterschoolprogram@kingston.vic.gov.au
Ph: 9581 4867
PSW Price list
Please See the attached price list.
Working Bee 17th Feb 4-6pm
Our Working Bee note went on Operoo last week. Come along to one of our four Working Bees and receive a $100 rebate on your school fees. Help clean up our school, meet a few parents and enjoy a sausgae and drink after.
Term 1 Friday 17th Feb 4-6pm
Term 2 Saturday 27th May 8-10am
Term 3 Saturday 12th Aug 8-10am
Term 4 Friday 10th Nov 4-6pm
School Fees
Statements were sent out last Thursday via email. If no payment arrangement has been made and you are paying over 3 terms, the first instalment is due by 23rd February, 2023. Electronic transfer of funds (EFT) is the easiest method of paying fees. We accept payment by credit card/eftpos/cash or Bpay (please refer to your statement for details), or we can arrange for your bank to pay the fees on your behalf directly out of your nominated credit card or savings/cheque account. The forms are available to download below.
St Joseph's Concessional Fee Policy
Please read the new Concessional fact sheet information for those families who qualify and meet the criteria. It offers significant savings to families.
Concessional School Fees are available to any family that meets the below eligibility criteria:
- of Aboriginal or Torres Strait Islander heritage
- holding an HCC (Dept of Health Concession Card) and eligible for CSEF
- experiencing severe financial hardship
- holding a DVA Gold Card (Dept of Veterans Affairs Health Card)
- identified as refugees and holding an ImmiCard is strongly encouraged to apply for concessional school fees.
To see St Joseph's School Fees Concession policy please click on the link below.
Students of eligible families are entitled to concessional school fees.
The school fees for eligible students are:
If your family meets the criteria please click on the application form below and return the completed form to the school office.
Kindest Regards,
Gavan




